I think I am going to write a book titled, “Men Disappoint Me.”
It will start with an anecdote— something that happened tonight. Sitting at a a bar waiting for a girlfriend.
“You must try this tequila. How can you not loved aged tequila? Let me invade your space to tell you about the tequila you asked me not to order for you.”
Also, menz. A smile does not mean, “Rub my back aggressively and then let’s fuck”
If u want to meet a woman while you are out just be normal. Like, “Hi, my name is John. Did you see the women’s soccer today? Impressive.” One of two things will happen
1) “No” - your cue to stop talking
2) “Hi, I’m Jen. OMG they were amazing.” This is a cue to keep talking
I *think* the issue is that so many menz have “score” in their mind as a goal as opposed to “strike up a nice conversation.”
You can follow @DrJenGunter.
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